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Apology Gifts for When You Forgot Their Birthday (Belated, but Sincere)

Their birthday came and went and you didn't even text. Oof. The good news: a belated birthday done right can be better than an on-time one. Throw a mini make-up celebration, bring a fun gift and, yes, set a recurring calendar reminder before you do anything else. A gift helps, but say the words first: “I'm sorry, I messed up, here's what I'll do differently.” Then hand over the box.

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Cozy room with an October calendar with crossed-off days, a cupcake with a candle, balloons and a wrapped gift
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No. 01Amazon

Squishmallows 14-Inch Lyla the Birthday Cake

A birthday cake that never expires. Very fitting.

Real-life use: A huggable plush cake for a belated party.

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Lindt LINDOR Deluxe Assorted Truffles Gift Box

Chocolate: a classic belated birthday move.

Real-life use: Assorted truffles to share.

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Ember Mug 2 Temperature-Control Smart Mug (14 oz)

A mug that keeps coffee warm, unlike your birthday wishes.

Real-life use: Set the temperature from an app.

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Fujifilm Instax Mini 12 Instant Camera

Start fresh with photos from the make-up party.

Real-life use: Instant prints for the fridge or scrapbook.

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Kendra Scott Courtney Paperclip Necklace

A little gold to say you really are sorry.

Real-life use: An everyday necklace.

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Pop Chart 100 Essential Movies Scratch-Off Poster

One hundred movies to watch together, starting with your make-up movie night.

Real-life use: Scratch off each film as you watch it.

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Pairs Well With: Ready-Made Bundles

Pairs well with

The Belated Party Box

A cake, chocolate and plans.

  1. AmazonSquishmallows 14-Inch Lyla the Birthday Cake
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  2. AmazonLindt LINDOR Deluxe Assorted Truffles Gift Box
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  3. AmazonPop Chart 100 Essential Movies Scratch-Off Poster
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