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Gifts for the Relative Who Asks When You're Getting Married (Every. Single. Holiday.)

Pass the potatoes. “So, anyone special?” Here we go. You can't change the question, but you can change the subject, permanently. These gifts hand them an entire deck of other questions, a crossword to keep busy and a little light etiquette reading. Delivered with love. Answered with nothing.

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Candlelit holiday dinner table with a place card, a ring box on a plate and a wrapped gift
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The picks

No. 01Amazon

TableTopics Family Gathering Conversation Cards

135 brand-new questions to ask at family gatherings. None of them are about your love life.

Real-life use: Conversation cards for reunions, holidays and multi-generational dinners.

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No. 02Amazon

Emily Post's Etiquette, 19th Edition

The definitive etiquette guide. We hear there's a chapter on prying questions.

Real-life use: A modern manners reference for weddings, dinners and every family event.

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No. 03Amazon

Emily Post's Wedding Etiquette

If they love weddings this much, they can read about one.

Real-life use: The classic planning and etiquette guide for anyone in the wedding world.

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No. 04Amazon

The New York Times Strictly Medium Crossword Puzzles, Vol. 1

Something to fill the silence that isn't “and when's the wedding?”

Real-life use: 200 medium crosswords for after-dinner downtime.

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No. 05Amazon

Do You Really Know Your Family? Game

A game about how well you know your family. Turns out you know them very well.

Real-life use: Holiday game night with questions that get everyone talking.

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No. 06Amazon

Trivial Pursuit Classic Edition

Thousands of questions. Your relationship status isn't one of them.

Real-life use: A family game-night classic for the hours after dessert.

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No. 07Amazon

Lindt LINDOR Deluxe Assorted Truffles Gift Box

Their mouth will be full of truffles. Strategic.

Real-life use: A box for the holiday table, shared generously.

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The Change-the-Subject Kit

Fresh conversation, a puzzle and a mouthful of chocolate.

  1. AmazonTableTopics Family Gathering Conversation Cards
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  2. AmazonThe New York Times Strictly Medium Crossword Puzzles, Vol. 1
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  3. AmazonLindt LINDOR Deluxe Assorted Truffles Gift Box
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